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On the other hand we face Scopophilia,
which Kathryn Bigelow mentions in one
of her interviews.
A word hard to be heard on mainstream,
which on the other hand is the mainstream case.
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Though the term ‘Scopophilia’ may carry
dubious connotations (even if we do not
know what it means), this day and age has
created a civilization of scopophiliacs.
Scopophilia literally means “a love of watching.”
The term entered our lexicon through a
translation of the Freudian
psychoanalytic word Schaulust.
That word does not necessarily
signify a peeping Tom caricature
that portrays a face pressed against
a window holding up binoculars
to get a good gander at their neighbors.
Scopophilia comes in many forms: Movie-making
and movie-viewing is one avenue of scopophilia.
Social networking websites that have allowed one
to publicize the private is another cultural arena.
Importantly, when he was describing
this Schaulust, Sigmund Freud distinguished
between two forms that scopophiliacs enjoy:
the active form of watching known as “voyeurism”
and the more passive form of “exhibitionism.” Though our
voyeuristic endeavors can transcend sex, Freudian interpretation
asserts that our scopophilia is rooted in an expression of sexuality.
In Sigmund Freud’s Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality,
he argues that scopophilia drives our libido from childhood.
In his outlined process of healthy psychosexual development,
Freud suggests between the ages of two and four, healthy reconciliation
of the anal stage requires a combination of self-mastery and our impulse
of scopophilia.
This psychosexual theory concludes that our voyeurism
contributes to the formation and development of our ego.
Consequently, it is impossible to discern the sexual aspects of
scopophilia from its non-sexual aspects.
Freud even went on to describe four stages of the drives involved
in scopophilia: First is the passive form known as “exhibitionism”
which entails your sexual organ being looked at.
The second stage is the active side that involves
looking at another’s sexual organs.
The third and fourth
stages are similar but they move beyond sexual organs to
voyeurism and exhibitionism of “extraneous objects.”
If individuals derive any form of gratification from voyeurism
or exhibitionism, there has to be something deep-rooted, something
visceral to explain its origin and causes.
Whether discussing pornography or advertising, the chief concerns
regarding the effects scopophilia has on an individual
or societal-level centre on fetishism and objectification.
Psychologists argue that scopophilia involves the subject or
person being watched being reduced to an object whose key purpose
is for the viewing pleasure of the watcher. The ethical implications
of this are not unfounded either: Take pornography, for example.
Pornographic actors are rarely embraced by the mainstream
and often have their humanity devalued because the films
they are featured requires such passiveness from watchers.
The criticisms of objectification of peoples in pornography
are not misguided. Indeed, this lack of humanity accredited to
pornographic stars may in fact partially explain the reckless
drug and self-abuse rampant in the industry.
Another concern surrounding scopophiliacs involves fetishism
which can escalate to unhealthy and dangerous levels if left
unchecked and improperly channeled. Before his execution,
serial killer Ted Bundy warned of the dangers of the increasingly
sexualized culture of voyeurism: “You are going to kill me,”
he warned, “and that will protect society from me. But out
there are many, many more people who are addicted to pornography,
and you are doing nothing about that.” Indeed, sufferers of
psychosexual disorders originating from childhood trauma –
such as sexual abuse – have a history of being more vulnerable
to scopophilia cases that have led to a harmful escalation of their habit.
Perversions and fetishism have long existed, but the increasing accessibility
and understanding beg many disturbing questions.
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